By Josh Gilman: “How do I protect my home, when not everyone at home wants to be protected?” This is one of the more frequent questions we receive and comes mostly from parents with older teens or adult children living at home. Sometimes it comes from wives or husbands whose spouse isn’t interested in establishing online protections. The last scenario … Read More
Fighting Porn Addiction, Saving Marriages, & How To Find Out If Your Boyfriend Is Watching Porn
There are a lot of ways that people fight pornography. But one of the most effective ways is to actually become a licensed, sexual recovery therapist. This week on our podcast we were joined by one of those very special people who has taken the time to get the training and expertise to help people who feel helpless. In this … Read More
The Kavanaugh Hearing broke the anti-porn movement. How do we fight back?
The Kavanaugh hearings broke social media algorithms. If we let the issues we care about become politicized they’ll fall by the way side. Here is some really important information you need to know if you want to fight back. Follow these great organizations on social media! Fight The New Drug: https://fightthenewdrug.org Covenant Eyes: https://covenanteyes.com Nation Center On Sexual Exploitation: http://ncose.com … Read More
How one mom is creating a “Digital Well” for moms to help each other parent the smartphone generation
Melody Bergman is a normal mom. Because normal moms burn the pizza, get lost on the way to soccer practice, and have to answer the question, “What do I do when my child is exposed to pornography”. But Melody Bergman is also a hero in our eyes. Because instead of throwing her hands up and just complaining about how hard … Read More
How to talk to your friends about porn, when they don’t want to talk about porn
By Josh Gilman: For all the wonderful breakthroughs the anti-porn movement has made in the last few years, it still is true that the majority of people aren’t comfortable talking about porn. So how can we break-through people’s barriers? If pornography is truly as bad as we think, and causes as many problems as we believe it does, I believe … Read More
Being “Sextorted”, Finding Freedom, Ending Slavery
How would you feel if your every secret was blasted across the internet? This isn’t something that is imaginary anymore. It’s not just candidates for the Supreme Court, or President who are going to have every single word and action they’ve ever done be looked into, investigated, & questioned. In today’s world with the amount of content we even put … Read More
The Problem with Fantasy
By: Brad Pullan I’m convinced that spending time sexually fantasizing about people (who aren’t your partner/spouse) is very harmful. Before going further I want to make it clear that I am NOT addressing married couples desiring and thinking about each other. While there are both healthy and unhealthy ways of thinking about your spouse, for the purpose of this … Read More
It’s time to normalize not watching porn
By Josh Gilman Last week, former radio host, Jian Ghomeshi was back in the news after an essay of his was published by NewYorkBooks.com . I’m not going to pretend I was happy about that. Call me judgemental but I tend to believe that men who believe that violence is simply a sexual preference are better off out of the … Read More
Talk Today, Safer Tomorrow
Talking to your kids about pornography can be tricky and intimidating. As a parent, the idea that you might say the wrong thing makes many of us scared to say anything. But as the saying goes “an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.” Just starting the conversation, no matter how much you initially fumble it or feel … Read More