Consuming the Poison

STF AdminAwareness, Culture, Healthy Sexuality, Relationships

By: Jonathan Murray (Scripture Union Canada) I believe there are numerous reasons to fight against the porn industry. Take for example, it’s destructive impacts on families, communities, relationships, and the Church. Perhaps one of the most devastating however, is how the porn industry transforms men and women into mere consumers. I am convinced that everyone has a unique set of … Read More

Fighting Porn Addiction, Saving Marriages, & How To Find Out If Your Boyfriend Is Watching Porn

STF AdminCommunity, Healthy Sexuality, Relationships, Resources

There are a lot of ways that people fight pornography. But one of the most effective ways is to actually become a licensed, sexual recovery therapist. This week on our podcast we were joined by one of those very special people who has taken the time to get the training and expertise to help people who feel helpless. In this … Read More

The Problem with Fantasy

STF AdminAwareness, Freedom, Healthy Sexuality, Relationships

By: Brad Pullan I’m convinced that spending time sexually fantasizing about people (who aren’t your partner/spouse) is very harmful.   Before going further I want to make it clear that I am NOT addressing married couples desiring and thinking about each other. While there are both healthy and unhealthy ways of thinking about your spouse, for the purpose of this … Read More

The Parent Trap: Inadvertently Reinforcing Shame

STF AdminChildren, Community, Freedom, Healthy Sexuality, Relationships

By Marilyn Evans: I’ve been thinking a lot about shame lately. And how it’s such a BIG obstacle for kids striving to let go of the compulsive habit to use porn. Shame floods the mind with negative thoughts and self-doubt. —”I’m no-good, I’m unlovable, I’m worthless, I’m stupid…” the list goes on. To meet our young people in their crisis, … Read More

“My Boyfriend Used to Watch Porn, But Then He Stopped” #Huh?

STF AdminFreedom, Relationships

Something that we unfortunately hear too often, mostly from younger girls, is that their boyfriends or husbands used to watch porn, but now they don’t. While we sincerely hope that this is indeed the case. It is often a concerning statement because porn isn’t like bell bottom pants or glitter. You don’t just grow out of it. Claiming freedom without … Read More

Why Do Men Keep Treating Me Like Dirt?

STF AdminAwareness, Culture, Relationships, Women

Sometimes we receive letters from people expressing the truth about porn that we just need to print them verbatim. Here is one from a young woman who knows the truth about porn and is speaking up. “Is it what I look like, or who I am? Why do men keep treating me like dirt?” I was speechless for a moment … Read More