Our rapidly changing digital world has had far-reaching consequences. However, few people have suffered as much as young women. The smart-phone introduced an unprecedented age of anonymity and access to violent, and degrading sexual violence portrayed as “normal sexuality”. This week on our podcast we were joined by speaker and activist Devorah Gilman to discuss what has happened to a … Read More
Fighting Porn Addiction, Saving Marriages, & How To Find Out If Your Boyfriend Is Watching Porn
There are a lot of ways that people fight pornography. But one of the most effective ways is to actually become a licensed, sexual recovery therapist. This week on our podcast we were joined by one of those very special people who has taken the time to get the training and expertise to help people who feel helpless. In this … Read More
Why Do Men Keep Treating Me Like Dirt?
Sometimes we receive letters from people expressing the truth about porn that we just need to print them verbatim. Here is one from a young woman who knows the truth about porn and is speaking up. “Is it what I look like, or who I am? Why do men keep treating me like dirt?” I was speechless for a moment … Read More
Should I break up with my boyfriend?
By Josh Gilman: Short answer: “yes”. Now before you, or your boyfriend, start throwing things at me, let me clarify. I’m not talking about a guy who has seen pornography. I’m not talking about a guy who was addicted years ago. I am talking about the guy that is a slave to his craving for pornography. (And yes, this goes … Read More
Priority People – Who Matters To You Most?: Challenge Day 8
I will not look at my phone or watch tv while eating dinner with others. Yesterday I encouraged you to text people. Now I’m going tell you texting is terrible. The Problem! This doesn’t discount what we posted yesterday. Texting friends instead of browsing the Internet is a much better use of your phone. And I totally stand by it. … Read More
Your internet doesn’t love you: Choosing friendships over phones – Challenge #7
Where did they go? We’ve all experienced it. You’ve got a really close friend, or it’s one of your friends in a specific circle of friends. Everyone hangs out together. And then suddenly they are gone. What happened? Well they started dating someone. So you make jokes about “wondering if they are alive still?” and “oh you still … Read More